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Jan 25, 2009
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Thanks for your response Mia
by: Dawn

Thank you for your response. I will try some of your suggestions.

My husband and I don't use condoms. We tried once, and that actually caused him and I to both feel less friction, and things went downhill from there. ;-) Once we even tried some cream we found at an adult store that was supposed to dry things up, but didn't.

I'm still researching on the vaginal surgery. I don't like the odds that I may never have any vaginal sensation again if things go wrong. It's really not that serious. Like I said, we both reach orgasm, but it would be soooo much better if I weren't so wet.

But thanks for your help!


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Hi Dawn,

Thanks for posting your concern about feeling that you are too lubricated to have an enjoyable sexual experience with your partner. You are not the only woman who has concerns about being too wet.

Vaginal wetness varies from woman to woman and from one sexual encounter to the next. A good amount of lubrication is essential for enjoyable sex as it makes penetration easier. It also enhances clitoral sensitivity which increases your chances for having a sensational orgasm. Too much lubrication, however, can be perceived as a problem when things just get too slippery down under - especially in situations where your partner tends to slip out during intercourse.

There are several possible reasons for your lube level being high. In some cases it has to do with fluctuating hormone levels due to changes in birth control methods. Some women also report increased wetness during ovulaton. For most women however, it just seems to be the normal result of being superaroused, and that's nothing to be embarrassed about.

I can't offer any advice on decreasing your level of lubrication. However, some practical pointers would be to keep kleenex handy and to wipe when changing positions. You could also try textured condoms for more friction. Lastly, you'll have to experiment with different sexual positions to find what works best for you and your partner. Please discuss the issue with your gynaecologist as well.

If you're intent on undergoing vaginal surgery, make sure that you do your research first. I recently wrote an article about 'Designer vaginas' that you may find interesting. You can find it in the 'Juiciest Articles' section on the nav bar.

More than anything else, I hope you find a way to make your peace with your superarousal status. Believe me, there are a lot of women out there with the opposite problem who would say: 'You go, girl!'

Warm wishes
Mia

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