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Sexy Touch

Different Ways of Sexual Touching

Brushing: When you change the props you use during sexual touching and sensual massage, the sensation usually changes as well. For example, stroking your lover's skin with satin or fur both feel great, but different. Paintbrushes or even hairbrushes feel fantastic when it runs over dry skin.

Stroking: To achieve the best result here is to start by holding your partner's hands, then to travel up the arms and making your way down the front or back of their body. Follow all the way down to the toes and slowly make your way back up. This process should be done without lifting your hands off your partner’s body. Gradually increase the pressure while you repeat the process several times.

Scratching: Everyone loves getting that itchy spot on their body scratched but that doesn’t mean that you should treat your partner once in a while and just scratching them all over. For some people there is nothing that turns them on more. Generally you start by scratching your partner’s back and when you feel comfortable and confident enough, move to more sensitive areas such as the stomach and thighs. Scratching should be done lightly and carefully to ensure you or your partner doesn't get injured.

Fanning: This process is when one partner is positioned on their stomach and the other places their hands flat on either side of the receiver's spine. Slowly and gently slide your hands up your partners back, and around the shoulders. Then make your way back the same direction you just came from and down the rib cage. Try and repeat this process several times, each time applying more pressure. Your fingers should be facing up to your partners head at all times.

Kneading: The best result in kneading is achieved when using your knuckles, fingers, thumbs and the soft areas of your palms. Gently use the parts of your hands to massage the muscle and the soft fleshy areas. The technique that works the best would be rhythmically move each hand in turn and repeating this process several times. Kneading has been found to work best on the shoulders, upper arms, claves and inner and outer thighs. The ribs, shoulder blades, spine and sides should be avoided because these areas are found to be extremely ticklish.

Frottage: When two people rub up against each other fully clothed or naked to the point of climax or used as foreplay it is referred to as frottage. The best ways to achieve frottage is by standing and lubricating you or your partner, and then slowly rub your body up and down theirs. Rubbing your body against their chest buttocks and thighs should help achieve maximum climax.

Massage Oils for Sexy Touch

Any of the different types of sexy touch could be done with different types of oils. Use any type of massage oil or lubricant and rub it between your hands to warm it before applying in on your partner. When using oils try and avoid using water based products as they trend to dry quickly and become very sticky. Oil-based lubricant and massage oil works a lot better, but when leading to sexual intercourse it reduces the effectiveness of latex condoms and barriers. It is never a good idea to massage someone who has just had a big meal, for it may reappear.

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