A Sexy Massage
Maintaining ConnectionA sexy massage is a great way of maintaining connection through physical contact with your partner. It also helps set the mood for more intimacy. Anyone can give or take pleasure from a sexy massage - just make sure that you take some basic safety precautions to help you achieve the best results. Here are few do's and don'ts: · Do not dig into the skin or muscle of the recipient; · Use a soft gentle touch; · Avoid working directly on the spine; · Do not press on the base of the scull; · And lastly, try to avoid putting too much pressure on the various pressure points.
Benefits of Sexual TouchForeplay massage gives you and your partner an opportunity to scan your bodies for lumps. The most common places lumps appear are in the breasts for female and scrotum for men. You should also keep an eye on any moles that may be changing in shape, size or colour. These might indicate signs of skin cancer. A doctor should be consulted if there are any concerns or questions.
Sensate FocusSensate focus is a technique designed to help men and women when they are having sexual difficulties. Some difficulties couples may be experiencing include:· Inability to get aroused; · Inability to get or maintain an erection; · Low libido or libido discrepancies between partners; · Or an inability to enjoy sex. If you or your partner are experiencing any of the problems listed above, the best advice is to go back to basic touching of your partner’s body and face. Rather than worrying about the sexual part of things, you can just focus on using sensual touch to give and receive pleasure. There are three different phases to sensate focusing and it's always advisable to do it under the supervision of a sex therapist. The phases are to learn how to stroke and massage each other’s bodies; the next step then is stroking and massaging your partner’s genitals without penetration, and finally to have enjoyable sexual intercourse. The not so good news: Everyone loves receiving a deep sensual massage, but not everone enjoys giving one. Just remember that life is about give and take. If you put in some effort, it's likely that your partner will too. You may even find that it is very enjoyable once you really get into it. If you enjoyed this page on how to give a sexy massage, make sure to visit my sexy touch page on the different types of touching. (From Sexy Massage) (Back to Better Sex Home)
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