Sex Games: The Pain-Pleasure Boundary

by Anonymous
(New York)

Reader Post: 'My husband and I have a fantastic sex life. We love to play sex games and recently we've started exploring the pain-pleasure boundary with light S&M.

It all started when we decided to add something new to our sex toys. My husband bought a pair of nipple clamps. That night he restrained me with ropes (which I love!) and once I was highly aroused through oral sex he fixed the clamps to my nipples. I couldn't believe how good it felt! I also found that the more aroused I became the more pain I could tolerate... and the bonus was that seeing me submit and squirm aroused my husband to a point where he became multi-orgasmic for the first time. I've always enjoyed a good spanking, but nipple clamps raised the bar considerably. My husband has now ordered a clitoris clamp as well and I can't wait for him to use it on me.

One word of caution though... I don't recommend you try clamps before indulging in an adequate amount of foreplay first. Any pain that you feel should feel arousing. If you want more, you're on the right track. If it becomes too painful to bear, stop!'