Sex Diaries: Talking Dirty

by Anonymous

Reader Post in Sex Diaries: 'Talking dirty really turns me on during sex. My boyfriend and I make a game out of it - the more explicit, the more we both love it.

Sometimes taking dirty becomes part of our foreplay long before we're having sex. We'll send each other sexy text messages during the day with descriptions of what we'd like to do to each other. Phone sex can be quite spectacular too! Sometimes I pretend I'm a sex worker - and I talk to him as if he's paying me to arouse him. It's just a bonus that it gets me going in such a big way as well. By the time we get together after work, we usually can't keep our hands off each other.

I have to say that it took some courage from me to get into it. At first I was very timid and I didn't really know what to say. It felt so 'wrong' - almost like I had to go wash out my mouth with soap. There was also a part of me that was worried that I'd sound silly and would be laughed at.

Then I discovered the power of talking dirty. It's like adding fuel to the fire of our desire. It's also a sure way to make my boyfriend orgasm - and fast!

My advice to other women out there... Don't be shy. It's just one more way to get rid of your inhibitions and fully let go. What you say is not as important as saying it with gusto. Tell your partner what feels good, and where. And be VERY specific.

It also helped me to watch a few porn movies with my boyfriend and learn from the best. Sometimes I like the idea of being my boyfriend's very own porn star - to do with as he wants. Of all the 'games' we play in bed, role play is by far the most exciting. And you can't role play being a porn star without some serious sexy talk!

I think women sometimes take sex too seriously. I don't approve of promiscuity, but within the boundaries of a committed relationship, just about ANYTHING goes. That's my opinion anyway.

My boyfriend and I couldn't be closer. We're best friends - and the sex is superhot. What more could I ask for?'

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