Satisfied Women SecretsWhat do Sexually Satisfied Women in Common?
Satisfied women have one simple thing in common: they are happy with their sex lives. Do you know what the keys are to unlock your partner's sexual satisfaction? Read on. 7 Secrets of a Satisfied Woman1. She wants moreSatisfied women enjoy sexual encounters several times a week – and craves more. The important thing to remember here is that women generally have a much broader definition of sex than men. Sex doesn’t necessarily mean intercourse to a woman. It might just be that she would like to feel more sexual. You can help her by complimenting her at breakfast, sending a naughty text message during the day, and lighting a few candles during dinner. It’s really not that difficult to make the woman in your life feel desired – and believe me, the more satisfied she feels, the more pleased you’ll be when the two of you finally slip between the sheets.
2. She has body confidenceA satisfied woman knows she is hot! She doesn’t suffer from low body esteem and believes her partner finds her extremely sexy. So listen up, guys, don’t ever criticize her body. Just as important, don’t drool over other women’s bodies in her presence. She won’t feel comfortable showing you her body if she knows you’re secretly in love with Elle. So what to do if she doesn’t have the perfect body? Focus on the bits you do love and tell her so in and out of bed. Often. During sex, you can ease her discomfort by keeping the lighting low. Let her keep her negligee on if it makes her feel less self-conscious – being half-dressed adds extra zest anyway. Make sure you know how to arouse her – the higher the arousal, the lower her inhibitions!3. She is relaxedIt makes intuitive sense that happiness equates with satisfaction. A woman's overall emotional health strongly correlates with her sense of sexual satisfaction. Therefore, if your partner is experiencing a lot of stress in her life -- anxiety over a relationship or work, or dissatisfaction with life in general -- it will negatively affect her sex life. Find out what can be done to take pressure off her if she is stressed or depressed. Encourage her to seek professional help if low mood persists. Counselling can often make a huge difference to achieve a satisfying and fulfilling sexual relationship.4. She feels emotionally connectedWhile women can have sex, or even enjoy sex, on a particular occasion, she needs to feel emotionally connected to you in order to experience overall sexual satisfaction. Women have difficulty separating sex from emotions such as closeness, attachment, trust, love and support. If a woman is not emotionally connected to her partner, sex suffers; she is less inclined to be sexual, and thus is less satisfied. You can facilitate a sense of connection by simple things... eye contact, sincere compliments, sharing a joke, romantic gestures, and having fun together. Connection is founded on both the quantity and the quality of the time you spend with her.5. Pleasure is the goalSatisfied women often enjoy the journey just as much, if not more, than the destination. Orgasm isn’t what is essential to a woman’s sexual satisfaction; but pleasure is. Believe me, boys, if you want to pleasure your partner, make foreplay your best friend. If you take the time to set the mood for an evening of hot romance and surprise her with an erotic massage, she will feel much closer to you. The more relaxed and intimate she feels during intercourse and the less she is focussed on achieving an orgasm, the more likely she is to climax.6. She expresses her needsA satisfied woman knows exactly what she wants in bed and is able to ask for it. Encourage her to express her needs and let her know you like it when she takes tells you what feels good. You can even ask her to show you. Be sure to be on the look-out for non-verbal clues too. If she touches you gently, that may be how she would like to be touched. If she gets a little wild, follow her lead.
7. Technique trumps sizeAnd lastly, the good news… Satisfied women are much less likely to be concerned about the size or shape of your penis. Sexual chemistry, passion, generosity and intimacy are all factors that contribute to a woman’s pleasure. She wants to know that you enjoy her body and you enjoy every second of making love to her. If she is satisfied, she'll be returning the favour!Do you know how to make love to achieve a full body orgasm? You can read more about the road to spiritual bliss... or feel free to browse. (From Satisfied Women) (Back to For Men Only) (Back to Better Sex Home Page)
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