Romance Ideas for Sizzling Sex

The following romance ideas are guaranteed to fan the flames of a sex life that may have gone a little stale. Remember, these are created with the male-species in mind. As explained in
the section on
true romance,
men have different views on romance than women. That doesn't mean you have to lose out though. The more you do for him, the more he'll want to do for you. That way you're both satisfied!
Remember also that the best erotic romance ideas don't have to cost a lot of money. In the end it's about how well you know your partner and how creative you are when it comes to pleasing him.
Erotic Romance Ideas:
Try the following erotic romance tips:
- Buy a small bottle of massage oil and a blank card. Gift-wrap the oil and write the following message on the card: ‘I know a great Masseuse. Ring (your phone number) for an appointment.’ Then sit back and wait for the call.
- If you’re not inclined to sleep in the nude as a rule, slip between the covers naked after lights out and spoon him.
- Organize a professional photo shoot and tell the photographer that you would like a sexy, but sophisticated photo of yourself as a gift to your partner. Make sure you look your best and take direction from the photographer.
- When your partner has had a really long hard day, run a hot bath for him. Pour some fragrant bath oil into the tub. Let him relax for a while and then join him with some of his favourite choccies. If it happens to lead to sex, he will love you for initiating the deed.
- Set up a simple picnic on the beach and give him a call to ask him to join you. To please him, think cold beer and meaty sandwiches rather than champagne on ice, or whatever he would find most enjoyable.
- Write a poem on a card and mail it to your partner’s work address in a plain envelope. When choosing the poem, go for sexy and modern rather than sentimental and Shakespearian. A good choice is ‘I love my body when it is with your…’ You’ll find it in the section on erotic poetry.
- Make him laugh. Find jokes that relate to your relationship and text or email it to him. Steer clear of mushy chain letters though. It’s doubtful that your partner will appreciate the sentimentality as much as a lot of women do.
- Compliment your partner often. Tell his mother (in front of him) that he really looks after you. Tell your mutual friends he makes great pasta. Men need to feel appreciated as much as women do.
- Step into the shower with your lover and soap him down. Wash his hair and give him a relaxing head-massage without expecting any attention in return. Just let him know you want to do something special for him.
- As a gift for his birthday, organize an adventurous experience for your partner that he’s always wanted to do. Think sky-diving, bungee-jumping, white-river rafting, abseiling. He’ll love it if you conquer your own fears and join him!
- Invite him over for a game of strip-poker. Wear sexy lingerie that he (almost!) wouldn’t want you to take off!
- When your lover is sick at home, take a day off to look after him. Rent a few action videos, prepare him some chicken-soup, keep him warm and just be with him.
- Send him a thank-you note. Be specific about what you’re grateful for, tell him what a difference he makes to you life and end off by thanking him for his love.
- Surprise your partner with tickets to an event that he would love: a footy game, a cricket match, a performance of his favourite band.
- Buy him a t-shirt with a funny slogan. Stay clear of matching tees.
- If you are in a private spot near a beach or lake and weather permitting, indulge in a spontaneous skinny dip.
- Arrange a mystery weekend for you and your lover. Tell him to be ready at a certain time to be picked up and give a hint on what to pack (or better yet, pack for him). Allow him to sit back, relax and enjoy the ride.
For more erotic romance ideas, make sure to indulge yourself in my page on
true romance.
You can also find more
adult romance ideas
here, and some superspecial
flowers of romance
suggestions, but the best romantic intentions in the world are just one side of the picture. Make sure you and your partner is a good fit by taking our
romance compatibility
test.
Lastly, I would love for you to share your best
sexy romantic ideas
with my better-sex-4-women readers. It will be fun to read each others suggestions too!
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