Problems with Reaching Orgasm

by Bizybee
(Florida)

Reader Post: 'By far my biggest challenge when it comes to having sex and reaching orgasm is to control my busy mind.

Seriously, it's as if I don't know how to 'switch off'. I guess I'm one of those women that everyone jokes about because I'm working through my to-do list in my mind instead of focusing on the pleasure at hand.

Of course I could never admit this to my husband - he would be so hurt to know that my thoughts are with anything but him during our sexual experiences. And it's not that he is a bad lover either. In fact, he is extremely attentive and my satisfaction is of the utmost importance to him.

I'm sad to say that I often fake orgasm -and it's all about not being able to let go of my thoughts enough to relax into the experience. It's like my thoughts are always racing, racing, racing - it drives me crazy!'

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