Penis Games
The Delights of Penis Power
Penis Games require that you become familiar with all the delights of penis power.
The penis is more than the essential piece of male equipment – it has major symbolic significance as a sign of dominance. Depending on the mood in the bedroom, it can be used as a weapon or a toy. In a loving relationship where playing penis games are very much an accepted part of your loving interaction, you may feel that your partner’s penis belongs as much to you as to him. Chances are that you find its texture, erectility, apparent autonomy and personality fascinating!
It’s important to remember that a significant part of male self-esteem and sense of identity tend to be located in the penis. This explains men’s preoccupation with penis size.
Penis Size: Does Size Matter?
Men often ask me in the therapy room, 'Does size matter?'
If truth be told, many women are turned on by the idea of a large penis. However, penis size has little to do with a woman’s enthusiam to play penis games, or in fact her ability to climax. Female orgasm doesn’t depend on deep penetration. Some women do say that they feel more during intercourse if their partner has a large penis, but if anything, thickness matters more than length.
It’s only in very rare cases that a penis is too big for a woman to accommodate. If you feel that you are too small or too tight, it usually says something about your arousal levels. More time and foreplay usually takes care of the problem. If you haven’t done so already, take a look at the section on vagina talk. You’ll be amazed at the vagina’s capacity to stre-e-e-tch.
Whatever your lover’s penis size, make sure that you only ever comment on it favourably. Assure him that you’re more than satisfied with his anatomy and technique.
A Lesson in Male Anatomy
To please your lover, it’s essential to learn to handle his penis skilfully. Not only will your joy in playing penis games boost his ego, it guarantees better sex for both of you.
Think of the penis in four parts; the head or glans (the mushroom-shaped top of the penis); the urethra ( the tiny slit at the top from which he urinates and ejaculates); the shaft (the length of the penis); and the frenulum (the small piece of skin where the head meets the shaft. Your partner may have a foreskin (the small piece of skin where the head meets the shaft) or, if he has been circumcised, the skin would have been removed.
The shaft of the penis is usually the least sensitive part and the head the most, because it contains abundant nerve endings that are close to the surface of the skin. Even more hypersensitive is the frenulum, the puckering of skin that connects the underside of the glans to the shaft.
The scrotum is the pouch of skin at the bottom of his penis that holds the testes. It’s basically a sperm factory. Some men like their scrotum to be stimulated during sex, but be aware that it is a highly sensitive skin area. It also needs careful handling, since pressure on a testis can be excruciatingly painful.
The perineum is the area between the testes and the anus and is also rich in nerve endings. Some men love for you to pay attention to their anal region, others don’t. Explore gently and be guided by your lover’s reactions and body language.
The prostate gland, found around the urethra at the neck of the bladder in men, is known as the male G-spot. You can explore it by inserting a well-lubricated finger gently into his anus and pressing against the front wall – it feels like a firm mass about the size of a walnut.
The prostate is a secret hot spot much like a woman's G-spot. A gentle massage truly leads to sexual bliss. For more information, make sure to read my pages on
orgasm through prostate massage
as well as
self prostate milking.
Now that we've got the lesson on male anatomy out of the way, it's time for action. Visit my page on
advanced masturbation
for tips and techniques to handle your lover skilfully.
Make sure to master the
slow masturbation technique
to leave your lover begging for more!
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