Overcoming Low Self Esteem
Question: How can I stop shying away from men?Dear Glenn, My problem is that I have never been in a relationship and consequently never had sex with a man. I am beautiful and attractive but my self esteem is really low because I've got small boobs (cap A) so I shy away from men because I know men love big-n-sexy boobs which I don't have. In addition to my small boobs, my left leg is slightly shorter than the right one, making one hip look bigger that the other. I have always thought that big boobs and a nice butt turn men on. Is there a way I can be helped? Celine Glenn's Answer:
Dear Celine,Of course there's a way for you to be helped, and because I am the original, well educated, fun loving Man's Man, and since you asked, I will offer my advice. First of all, you didn't need to tell me about your low self esteem, it's apparent. However, through counseling, with the right doctor or therapist, you can build your self esteem. And the reason I KNOW you will be successful in building your self esteem to the point of loving yourself the way you should is because you wrote the following: "I am beautiful and attractive." Celine, these are your words. Bravo! Let's address your suspicions and set the record straight... 1. Not ALL men love "big-n-sexy boobs." I'm sure you've seen both men and women whom you would classify a "sexy, beautiful, attractive, etc." Well, let it be know that what one person finds sexy, another may not. You cannot lump everyone into one group. It's not fair to them or to yourself. -Glenn (From Overcoming Low Self Esteem) (Back to Advice Column for Women) (Back to Better Sex Home Page)
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