Orgasms after partial hysterectomy

I am in my thirties and had a partial hysterectomy a little over a year ago. I still have my ovaries and hormones! I have found that since my surgery I have had the desire to want sex all the time. I think about having an orgasm and my body goes into a pre-orgasm state, when i am turned on. I have turned to a vibe to keep up with me since my husband cannot. I feel wonderful down there, more in control, and that's probably why I enjoy sex so much now.

I never had a problem climaxing before. My husband is just not into pleasing 'me' and exploring these new found desires. i have yet to experience a full out g-spot climax. I have only had clitorial climaxes. I want to know the feeling of this. I have been so close. Any tips for what i can do to achieve this quickly? or on my own even?