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Orgasm Massage
Learn to give an orgasm massage and have your best orgasm ever!
What is an Orgasm Massage?
An orgasm massage is a sensual massage that starts with full-body stimulation and progresses to intimate genital stimulation until the receiver reaches orgasm. At its best, it is a leisurely process that enables you to experience as much satisfaction as possible.
How to Give a Sensual Massage
1. It's important to set the right mood for your sensual massage. Create an atmosphere that is as romantic and relaxed as is agreeable to both of you. Check that the room temperature is comfortable for being naked together and dim the lights - candles are especially nice. Relaxing music is a nice touch.
2. Make sure that you choose a time of day that you're assured of privacy - you need at least an hour of uninterrupted time together.
3. The main purpose of a sensual massage is to increase pleasure through awareness of your own responses to giving and receiving touch. When you're the giver, your task is to caress, stroke, and rub different parts of your lover's body in ways that will make them feel increasingly aroused. Start by massaging all areas of the body, starting with the toes, feet, thighs, tummy, arms, face, hair and buttocks. Do this slowly - until you sense your partner is ready for more intimate stimulation. Move on to stimulating the breasts and genital area. Make sure to visit our page on
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4. Use your palms, fingertips or fingernails, but you can also experiment with pieces of material or fur; or your lips or hair.
5. If you're the receiver, focus on the different sensations and give your partner feedback. Keep your attention on the physical feelings at the place where you're being touched. If your mind wanders, bring it back to the experience and follow your partner's touch with your mind. Say when something feels particularly good so that the giver knows where to focus their attention. Communication allows you to receive pleasure in a more personal and meaningful way. By letting your partner know what works for you, the whole experience becomes more intimate.
6. Most couples enjoy using different oils and lubricants to change the friction and texture of the massage. Oils tend to intensify touch and make your skin feel warmer; lotions tend to make your skin feel cooler. Water-based lubricants are usually best for the genital area.
7. Once the receiver has reached orgasm, change positions and allow them to return the favour - or you may decide to proceed to intercourse and leave the massaging for your next encounter.
