Oral Sex Aversion

Of course I have a solution for you. After all, I'm the original, well educated, fun loving Man's Man.

1. Yes, sex is more about closeness than a blow job. However, many men feel that if a woman performs the act of oral sex and swallows, too, then she can get no closer. That's just the way many men feel.

2. You stated that "I really just don't feel comfortable with it and I also don't like the taste of semen." That to me reads as two distinctively different issues. So, what is it that's not "comfortable?' And what's with the "taste?" Is it not comfortable in your mouth and throat? Is the taste vulgar? Without specifics, it's difficult to offer a sound solution. So, I will have to speculate until I hear back from you with the specifics. But first, allow me to ask the following: When you first got together with you man, did you have a problem performing oral sex? Or was it the same then as it is now? Anyway...

3. Let's first discuss not being comfortable...If your concern is he's unhygienic? If so, then first have him shower. There are far dirtier organisms in a mouth than a clean penis. If he's too big for your mouth, know that the most sensitive part of the penis is from the tip of the head to just below. Though a man may asked to be deep throated, that's more for ego than pleasure.

4. Now let discuss the taste...You've probably heard the saying, "you are what you eat." Same goes for your man's seaman. His seaman is what he eats. Since you said you do not like the taste, know that taste can be changed. Macrobiotic Nutritionists have done research on this topic. And the taste of semen comes from what your man eats. From my research, it is said that alkaline-based foods such as meats and fish produce a butter, fish taste. Dairy products, which contain a high bacterial putrefaction level create the foulest tasting fluids by far. Acidic fruits, such as sweets, fruits, and alcohol give bodily fluids a pleasant, sugary flavor.

5. You can always follow the old saying of...There is only one true way to give a blow job, and that's with enthusiasm. You have to love what you're doing to him, either because you love him or you love sucking cock. Loving both is best! Faked orgasms have nothing on unenthusiastic blow jobs.

Lastly, Leah, since I do need specifics to better assist you, you may always write for a private follow-up. Just state in the Subject: Follow-up. Private reply required. And include your E-mail. These questions first go through Dr. Mia then to me.

Sincerely,