On Anal Sex

by Anonymous
(Byron Bay)

Reader Post: 'I am so relieved to read here that anal sex is okay. I'm in a heterosexual relationship and have always felt more than a little bit embarrassed - and even guilty - about loving anal sex so much. When I'm very close to orgasm, there is just something incredibly arousing about anal penetration - it's usually all that's needed to put me over the edge.

I think the lure of anal sex for me is as much about the 'naughtiness' of it as it is about the sensations. And yes, if it's done right and first penetration is gentle and slow at first, it feels fantastic.

Surprisingly, my partner was fairly slow to warm up to anal sex. (I always thought most men desire it...) In the beginning he was worried about hurting me and to be honest, I think it grossed him out a little as well. However, the more we do it, the more we both like it - now I just have to convince him to allow me to give him a prostate massage. I am working on it!'