Male Masturbation Techniques:

Giving the Best Hand Job

Ladies, learn some male masturbation techniques that will drive your man into a sexual frenzy!

Masturbating your male partner can be a fun part of foreplay. Your goal when aiming to give the best hand job is to either increase his arousal and desire for sexual intercourse, or to make him orgasm. You can titillate his senses by taking hold of his penis and give it a teasing tug or two, or you can also bring him “all the way” and make him climax.

Here are a few male masturbation techniques and tips that will guide you through the act of masturbating your special man.

This first one is the most traditional method male masturbation technique:

The Traditional Method

Because the penis is designed to go into a wet vagina, masturbating him with your hands may be too dry for him to get maximum pleasure – especially if he is circumcised. You can easily take care of this by using a lubricant. If you don’t have any lubricant, saliva is a good alternative!

Once he’s ejaculating, slow down and lighten the pressure of your hand. Keep some part of your hand there until all the semen is out, but don’t squeeze it as you were before. Instead, hold it lightly. After he’s finished ejaculating, his penis will be very sensitive, so you’ll need to let go of it completely.

For some men the best hand job is hard, fast and rigorous, while others like it gentle, light and teasing. Ask him what he wants. Pay attention to how he reacts to what you are doing. What worked for your previous partner may not work for your current partner. Respect this and don’t try to force anything. If he has difficulty talking about what he likes best, judge by his reactions. Some men are more vocal about sex than others. He may not always be able to verbalize what he wants, but he does know what he wants. Use your intuition and focus on his reactions to what you are doing.

Now that you’ve learned the basic male masturbation technique, here are some other techniques and tips that will expand your repertoire of sexy tricks:

More Masturbation Tips

- Put your thumb on one side and your four fingers on the other side in a looser grip so that they are only lightly touching the penis. Move your hand up and down as described. This technique is good for men who prefer a lighter, more sensitive approach.

- From time to time, move your thumb over the head of his penis. This area is more sensitive than the other areas, so be careful not to apply too much pressure. A gentle sweeping motion, especially when he’s lubricated, will feel sensational!

- When his penis feels really hard and it seems like he’s on the verge of climaxing, stop. That’s right, stop. After a few moments, resume what you were doing. This stop-start approach results in a more gratifying climax for him. (There is a chance you might want to discuss this with him beforehand, so he doesn’t think you’re leaving him in the lurch! But after you do it once, he’ll understand your technique.) In the brief interim between stopping and restarting, do something sexy like run your fingers over the head of his penis, which will keep him incredibly aroused. You can also caress his balls, squeeze his buttocks or lick his thigh.

- Stimulate him with your other hand by cupping his testicles, rubbing his thighs, or squeezing his nipples. If you’re naked, make sure he can see you and fondle you too!

Investing energy into giving your partner the best hand job ever is a good alternative for those days when you don’t feel like engaging in intercourse. He’ll be thrilled for the special treatment and return the favor in spades! It’s also a great part of foreplay, ensuring that his penis is hard and ready to enter you. Now it’s time for you to put these male masturbation techniques into practice!

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