Loving The Toy
by Margie
(Durham, NC)
Recently, my husband has started to develop some type of fetish about using shall we say "toys" in the bedroom. This idea is a little off center for me because I'm more of a traditional person, and think that we should be able to please each other without the use of phallic devices. Recently though, I decided to let him try it, and although it was good, I don't want it to be a regular practice. The problem now is this... my somewhat hightened orgasm must have made him think that I would be prone to doing this sort of thing on a regular basis, and he has proceeded to buy more and larger "devices" thinking that if one was good more would be better. His recent purchase is what I would consider to be out of the normal range (of size) that is. For some reason or another he said it is an amazing turn-on to watch me being stimulated by something very large, and while yes the orgasm was incredibly intense, I'm still not really comfortable with the whole idea of this becoming commonplace.
Has anyone ever run in to this type of situation, if so what did you do?