Comments for Loving The Toy

Aug 21, 2009
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Hi there!
by: Mia

Hi Margie,

Thank you so much for your contribution. I know it's kinda uncomfortable when you first start using sex toys. However, it's such a great way to enhance your sexual pleasure in a committed relationship.

The best sex is about variety. Different places, different toys... sometimes you're acting out fantasies and sometimes it's slow and romantic; other times fast and furious. Whatever does it for both of you. Sometimes, if you like different things, as in the situation you mentioned, it's important to compromise. Find a middle road that appeals to both of you. For example, show him the biggest toy you'd consider and he shows you the smallest that would still turn him on - then buy something in the middle of that.

Most importantly, I would love for you to consider your own hesitance in playing with toys. What is that about? What do your feelings tell you about your own self-made rules about what is acceptable sexually? If you have bigger, better orgasms with vibrators or dildo's, what is wrong with incorporating that into your sexual experiences?

Let go. Enjoy your sexuality. Claim your sexual power. That will turn you both on no end!

Warm wishes,

Mia

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