Loving our Sex Games

by Anna
(Pretoria)

Reader Post: 'I've been in a committed relationship for about six years and after all this time we still love our sex games!

My partner works away every week and we've realized early on in our relationship that we needed to include sex games into our repertoire - and especially when he is away. It helps us to stay connected and make for spectacular sex when he arrives home. The sex games we play when he is away create a terrific build-up that we both love.

My partner loves to dominate me sexually and I love to submit. When we start playing, he sends me text messages with orders of what to do. This can include what to wear, as well as precise instructions on how to stimulate myself to orgasm. He chooses the sex toys he wants me to use and tells me exactly what he wants me to do. He also tells me to send him photos of myself while we're playing, which makes the whole thing even more sexy.

Usually he teases me relentlessly before he allows me to climax. I usually end up begging him for release - and it feels just wonderful when he finally gives me permission. He founds our games incredibly arousing too and he usually orgasms a couple of times as well.

I love that we're so open about our sex life... we share our deepest, dirtiest fantasies and incorporate that in our play, as well as lots of uninhibited, dirty talk.

Sex games keep us both sexually satisfied!'