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Lack of Erection

Reader Question

'Dr. Mia, is it possible to please a woman despite lack of erection? I've been struggling with erectile dysfunction for a while and although I'm in a therapy program, I would like to continue making sure my wife is satisfied. We have been engaging in oral sex and she orgasms quite easily, but I get anxious at the thought that it may not be enough for her.'

Mia Says...

I'm glad you've tried other ways to please your wife, for example oral sex. Very few women come during penetration anyway, so if you really want to pleasure her, it has to be clitoral stimulation with your hands and/or mouth... but in the right way!

You can also give her a full body massage, including a genital massage which would lead to a spectacular orgasm for her, whether you are aroused, or have an erection, or not.

Please talk to her about continuing to pleasure each other sexually in a variety of ways, because if you can find ways to please her and make her come without you having to worry about your own erection, she will be patient enough to support you with your sex therapy program until you can have penetrative sex that is fulfilling for both of you.

Better Sex Recommendation

If you are struggling with erectile difficulties, you can contact Dr. Mia Rose for confidential online therapy. Life is too short not to make the most of it. There is help and support available.

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