How to Please your PartnerDo you know how to please your partner? Let's start with a quick poll...
Yet I know from working with hundreds of couples that there is usually a giver and a taker in a sexual relationship. Sometimes both partners are happy with the arrangement; sometimes they're not. So how much do you think about how to please your partner? Here are a few tips:
Tips on Pleasing your Partner1. If you feel that your sexual relationship is one-sided, it has to be addressed. Practice may help hone your lovemaking skills, but talking can make your sex life perfect. Be open about what turns you on and what turns you off. Take the time to really understand what makes your partner tick.2. Explain what you already like about your sex life, but also make sure to express what you would like more of. Reinforce how much you enjoy making love. 3. Discussions about your sex life doesn't have to be super-serious. If you're going to get to the root of the issue, you'll need to leave your ego at the door. This is not the time to take offence... it's about negotiating something that you can both be happy with. 4. Find a time when you can get into bed, light candles, put on some mood music, cuddle and share things that give pleasure to both of you. Let your partner know it matters what they like because you want them to feel good. That will make you feel good too!
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