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How to have Anal Sex

Anal Sex

Wondering how to have anal sex?

Anal sex is certainly not everyone's cup of tea, but I'd like to suggest two moves - one for first time anal sex and the other as hot anal sex for the more experienced.

Preparation is essential. Have a nice hot shower together, swishing lots of soap around the desired area. Having an orgasm first helps relax her and using lots of lube is an essential extra. Also remember that pain is nature's warning. There is a right and a wrong way to enjoy anal sex and if your lover complains of pain, that should tell you which path you're on... Make sure to read my page on anal sex tips for essential advice.

Of all the variations of sex play, anal sex requires the most emotional support. Go slowly, encourage, caress - and call a halt to proceedings when discomfort sets in.

First Time Anal Sex

A great move for first anal sex is to enter your lover while she is lying flat, facedown, and then simply lie on top of her as you move very gently inside her.

It can be very comforting to a woman if you embrace her body to body. It also makes what some consider an unnatural act into something very beautiful, tender and connected. Make sure you support some of your weight if you're a big boy!


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Hot Anal Sex for the More Experienced

If you're more experienced, but still want to confirm how to have anal sex, I recommend the following hot anal sex move:

Enter your lover from behind in standard doggy style. When you're in nice and firmly, lift her up and turn yourselves around so that you're sitting on the edge of the bed with her in your lap. Wrap your legs around her shins to hold her legs apart. This will allow you full access to all her female parts. For an erotic effect, do this in front of a mirror so you can both be visually turned on as well.

This hot anal sex move combines visual stimulation with physical stimulation: you're inside her and can play with her clitoris and breasts whilst watching all the action. It is also extremely exposing for the woman, which, if she's into it, can be an extraordinary turn-on.

Feel free to keep browsing for more anal sex positions.

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