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How to Give an Orgasm
Reader Question
'Dr. Mia, can you tell me how to give an orgasm to a woman? What is the easiest way for her to come?'
Mia Says....
I hope this is not going to give your ego too much of a lashing, but research tells us that the easiest way for a woman to orgasm is masturbating with their fingers or a vibrator, or rubbing against something. In a survey of 500 women, 34 % said that they don't need a male in the room to have a great orgasm!
That said, the most reliable way for women to come is receiving oral sex. Only 6 % of women in this particular study said that they could orgasm from intercourse alone, although 12 % managed to achieve climax if there was added clitoral stimulation.
The most important thing to remember is that it usually takes women longer to get aroused and reach orgasm than men... so be patient and persistent. Learn the erogenous zones of a woman off by heart and indulge in plenty of foreplay. Make sure she is well lubricated. Also, clitoral stimulation is key!