Great Foreplay Tips to Tease and Tantalize your Lover
It's likely that great foreplay tips are high on your list of most wanted things. After all, what are the three things women want more of in bed? Foreplay, foreplay and foreplay! Foreplay is to sex what sunshine is to summer. It just won’t be all that much fun without it… Make sure you visit our
foreplay techniques
section for great foreplay ideas. But first, let's cover the essentials...
5 Essential Foreplay TipsTip 1: Aim for Twenty-three-and-a-half-hour ForeplayAs a woman you already know that romance, affection and attention through out the day all contribute to your capacity for desire and arousal. Let your partner know that little gestures mean a lot (the occasional flowers, an unexpected phone call, a night out together), especially if he doesn’t see the relevance in a long-term relationship (Of course I love you – I have sex with you, don’t I?).Tip 2: Go sl-o-o-o-w...Quickies are great for variety, but there is a lot to be said for slow arousal: the kissing, disrobing, and intimate touch… The anticipation and build up of tension... The urgency and glorious release.Apart from the pleasure-aspect, there is a very good reason why foreplay is such an important aspect of the sex act: it takes time for the female body to move through the stages of sexual arousal to orgasm. Men can reach a climax in as little as 2 to 3 minutes, while you generally need 20 to 30 minutes of play to reach the pinnacle during sexual intercourse. Better share these great foreplay tips with your honey, honey! Tip 3: Focus on Erogenous HotspotsMen and women turn on in opposite ways. Dr Rosie King explains in her excellent book, Good Loving, Great Sex, that men have ‘central arousability’, while women have ‘peripheral arousability’. Men turn on from the centre out; to be more precise, from the genitals out. Once his genitals are aroused, a man’s arms and legs, feet and hands, lips and neck and other erogenous zones become more sensitive to erotic stimulation.It’s not until a woman has been prepared and stimulated peripherally by non-erogenous stimulation, holding hands, stroking of the arms, kissing of the fingers and neck, caressing of the feet, legs and thighs, plenty of gentle lip, ear, cheek and forehead stimulation – that she becomes receptive to more direct stimulation of the breasts and genitals. You will find more information on the page that focuses on the female erogenous zones. Tip 4: Use Toys
Foreplay should be about play in the literal sense of the word. Most couples get bored with their sex lives at some point in their relationships. Sex toys add a bit of zest to the relationship and keep things from getting too dull.
While sex toys are commonly used for solo sex, many couples enjoy using sex toys together. Sharing new experiences together can create a new kind of intimacy. If the idea of sex toys make you feel uncomfortable, start slow, be gentle, use lubrication, communicate with your partner, and enjoy it as a new shared adventure.
Tip 5: Tell him what you NeedMake sure you communicate to your partner which great foreplay tips work best for you. If he cares about you, he’ll be eager to please you. Ask him to slow down if you’re not ready to receive him. Stop and hold him to give your body time to catch up.
Now Return the Favour....And because you’re keen to use some great foreplay tips on him too, you can read more about masturbating your partner to climax in the section on advanced masturbation. These tips and techniques will leave him in awe of your skills.For the ultimate pleasure, visit our VIP Lounge for step by step instructions to the Slow Masturbation Technique, which is guaranteed to blow your partner away! Enough great foreplay tips to have a good time tonight? Keep browsing...
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