Good Flirting Tips:

The Art of Flirting

Flirting is one of the most natural human interactions on the planet. It's exciting and it's fun.

Although flirting signals come naturally to most people, one needs to follow some unwritten laws of etiquette. As in any other sex games, it takes skill and practice.

* Know if you are flirting for fun or for intent. Flirting for fun is basically light-hearted and innocent. When flirting for intent, you engage in a mate-selection process, therefore you should be more selective as to who will be the recipient of your affections.

* Use good eye contact. Your eyes can much more than your lips can speak. You will want to capture the person's eyes, hold the gaze for a second and then look away with a shy smile. After a little while repeat the same process, eventually this will result in a smile from both of you. Once you received his welcoming smile, feel free walk over and strike up a conversation.

* After you have approached someone you feel attracted to, maintain your eye contact and remember to smile. Men love a woman who smiles. Generally maintain an arm's length distance from the individual, not too close and not too far.

* Be aware of your posture. Folded arms give a non-verbal cue that you are not interested, in disagreement and uncomfortable. Leaning backwards will give the impression of boredom. The best approach is to face your target, keep your posture open and remember to smile. Also occasional nodding works well, as it shows that you are listening.

* Lastly, do not be afraid to use the power of touch. Touching can be simply as a slight brush of the arm, should or knee. The use of touching only needs to be subtle, don't worry - he'll get the message.

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