The Art of Genital Massage

A sensual massage can be many things - relaxing, exciting, ticklish, playful... It can be a wonderful way for your bodies to attune to each other and achieve a state of bliss. Just remember, women are individual creatures. When it comes to how they like to be touched or massaged, they differ hugely. Allow your partner to guide you. Ask her to show you what she enjoys most.

Whilst massaging her, focus your thoughts on the loving energy emanating from your hands and passing into her body. This can result in an ecstatic experience for your both. Also make sure that the environment is conducive to love-making. Visit our page on setting the scene for love for great ideas on preparing your surroundings for an evening of hot romance!

Erotic Massage

10 Steps to Orgasmic Bliss

2. Begin by massaging down both sides of the spine to her lower back. This draws warm energy to the pelvis.

3. Gently kiss, rub and lick the nape of her neck. This is an erogenous zone and likely to be very enjoyable.

4. Massage her buttocks and slip your hands between her legs. It's important that she is well lubricated.

5. Look for signs that she is turned on. For example, if she arches her back or spreads her legs, ask her to turn over.

6. Look into her eyes and harmonize your breathing.

7. Massage her whole body, brushing energy away from the pelvic area up towards the abdomen and down her arms and legs.

8. Massage around her pelvis, her groin and tops of her thighs.

9. Move her legs apart and gently give her a genital massage. Check out my clitoris stimulation tips for ideas and techniques. Use your other hand and your mouth to caress other parts of her body as well.

10. Maintain eye contact with her as she reaches orgasm, and when she finishes, hold her and cuddle her until she feels relaxed.

Touch is essential to our wellbeing, and genital massage helps to unblock any repressed emotions.

Tantric teachings often advocate the use of feathers and soft fabrics to tantalize your partner. Explore what she likes most - the more new ways you find to excite your partner, the more intense the pleasure will be for you both.

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