5 Foreplay Activities Guaranteed to Blow her Mind
A touch of creativity is the secret ingredient that can transform pretty ordinary foreplay activities to an encounter that will make your lady purr with pleasure. Creativity doesn't mean foreplay ideas always need be a smorgasbord of delights to stimulate her (although it can). It's more often the subtle things that add erotic zest. The devil in you can be in the details. To get your sex foreplay firing, here are five foreplay activities to make her seethe with pleasure. Foreplay Ideas1. Undress to ImpressThe key to spectacular sex is to maximize your lover's level of arousal. The more you're able to turn her on, the more she will open herself up to you and the more responsive she becomes.Even removing her clothes provides you with a great opportunity to give her sexual experience with you an extra dimension - that of anticipation. This is important, because anticipation leads to desire and lubrication. If you do it right, she will also feel exquisitely feminine and admired by you, which will make her oh so ready to take it to the next level. Order her to stand still as you slo-o-owly and deliberately peel off her clothing piece by piece. Gently unbutton her shirt buttons one by one. Imagine you are unwrapping a precious gift as you caress each body part that you expose. Nothing turns a woman on more than her body being admired, so comment on how gorgeous her body is. Kiss and lick her through her underwear... tease through it, push it one side, play. Before removing her bra, grab hold of her hair and pull her head back to expose her neck. Make deep eye contact, then deliver a long, deep kiss. Make sure she knows you're in full control of the proceedings. Lay her down on the bed when she is completely naked. For an extra erotic touch, stay dressed yourself. Move on to whole body stimulation.
2. Whole Body StimulationIf you truly want to turn your woman on, you have to develop a sense of worshipping her whole body. The secret? Take. Your. Time.Women are generally turned on from the outside in... they need to have their whole body stimulated during foreplay activities. Her erogenous zones have high concentrations of nerves that link to her genitals. If you're game to explore non-genital arousal, she may even discover an ability to climax through non-genital stimulation alone. Start with your breath... blow softly over her skin. This is even more delicious after a sensuous kiss that leaves her skin slightly moist. Keep your touch light and use your fingers to trace down her neck, inner arms, stomach, and inner thighs. Alternate touch with light touches of your tongue. Pay special attention to her nipples by lightly tracing over the areola and bud, touching the tip with soft little strokes. Take her whole nipple in your mouth and experiment with swirling tongue movements. The more aroused she is, the more receptive she will be to intense stimulation, including exploring the border between pleasure and pain. Keep the teasing and tantalising up long enough and you can expect her to lose herself in the throes of delight. 3. Sense and SensualitySensory deprivation is one the most exquisite foreplay activities possible. When you take away your lover's sight, you heighten the senses that remain - especially touch. By blindfolding your lady, you can get her juices flowing in the most delicious way.There are many variations on this concept, but consider feeding her while blindfolded (no harm in borrowing a few foreplay ideas from Kim Basinger and Mickey Rourke in 9 1/2 Weeks). Choose a variety of fruits (sweet grapes, pieces of pineapple, pitted cherries) or spoil her with strawberries and champagne. If she loves seafood, incite the flames of love with oysters. Give her a full body massage with aromatic oils. Lavender is considered an aphrodisiac, as are substances such as saffron, musk and sandalwood. More foreplay ideas are to cover her ears with headphones and play music that you know turns her on while you're going down on her. (Music is great for helping her turn off the chatter in her head by the way.) When her mind is turned off and her body is turned on, she can focus fully on surrendering to your oral ministrations. 
Better Sex Recommendation:To send shivers up her spine, use soft and sensual forms, silken surfaces and sublime textures in your foreplay activities. You can stir all your lover's senses and take her to a heightened state of arousal with these fabulous playful restraints.4. SurpriseMake the most of foreplay activities by incorporating the element of surprise. Routine is the enemy of satisfying sex, so always try to mix things around and serve up a brand-new thrill.Even subtle changes to your normal routine can turn sexual foreplay into something memorable: a bite to the neck, a spanking, sucking her toes... anything really, that is a little bit different from what you normally do. The best foreplay ideas are all about making sure that you notch up her response by building tension in her body. This could be a stroking of her back that goes from finger pads to nails, or a caressing of her backside that turns into a very firm grip. The more aroused she is, the more she will respond to this kind of treatment. If you're the creative type, you can make spectacular use of champagne, ice, chocolate sauce, or massage oil to bring the element of surprise into your sex play - pour, splash, lick, rub and play away! 5. Keep her HoveringBecause it's harder for women to orgasm, it seems like a good idea to rush to the finish line once you're on the home run. Believe me, there is actually a better way...The longer you can make your foreplay activities last, and the longer you can let her hover on the brink of orgasm without actually tipping over, the better the resulting climax will be. At its most base level, orgasm is simply the release of tension and blood flow to the genitals. For an extraordinary experience, make sure the tension is allowed to build up to almost unbearable levels. Switch between mild, non-genital stimulation and intense, direct stimulation of her clitoris. Let her savour the almost-there stage and keep building to peak pressure before finally allowing her to let go. Visit my orgasm pages for more information. (From Foreplay Activities) (Back to Sexual Foreplay Tips) (Back to For Men Only) (Back to Better Sex Homepage)
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