A Feng Shui Bedroom for Better Sex

Your Bedroom: A Sacred Space
Allow energy to flow freely
The ancient practice of Feng Shui is an intricate art, working with the principle that the vibration of energy – or life force – flowing through your body and home is constantly seeking balance.
Everything in your environment is a reflection of your inner self. Your bedroom, just like the rest of your home, is a mirror which reflects your feelings. When environmental chi is blocked, you feel drained and stagnant. When it flows openly, you feel elated and joyful.
The best way to align with your surroundings is to listen to what your body is telling you. When energy is blocked, your body becomes out of sync, which in turn impacts negatively on your creativity, relationships and the rest of your life.
Create harmony
People of ancient cultures naturally knew how to create harmony in their living space since their bodies were aligned to the earth’s energy field. Modern civilisation is alienated from the earth’s natural cycles as artificial lighting, synthetic materials, air conditioning, and electro-magnetic radiation all impact on our health and happiness.
Sex is primal. It’s only natural that your sexual urges and expression are influenced by the energy vibrations that surround you. Copious plants, objects from the natural world, and soothing images of nature in your bedroom will help restore a sense of balance.
Keep balance in mind
According to Feng Shui principles, your bedroom should ideally be located in the relationship area (the back right-hand corner) of your house.
A well-balanced bed is very important in creating an ideal feng shui bedroom.
- Make sure your bed is easily approachable from both sides;
- Have two bedside tables (one on each side of it); and
- Avoid having the bed in a direct line with the door.
A good mattress, solid headboard and high quality sheets from natural fibers are also essential to harmonious feng shui energy.
Clear clutter
It’s near impossible to feel a sense of inner peace and harmony in an environment that is filled with clutter.
Clutter is low, stagnant and confusing energy that drains energy from you. Clutter inhibits passion and joy. When it accumulates in your bedroom, it negatively influences, or completely blocks, the flow of sexual energy.
Often you'll find that outer clutter reflects inner clutter in the form of obsessive thoughts, overwhelming emotions and negative influences. It takes emotional energy to clear clutter, but it is therapeutic in the sense that it releases energy and create space for intimacy to blossom.
Do the following:
- Clear the clutter under the bed;
- Clean out your closets. Let go of as many items as possible that you have not used in a long time;
- Remove items that create visual clutter and don't really belong in the bedroom. This includes the TV, any exercise equipment, office/work related items, and storage items.
You may just be amazed at the effect: more energy, clarity, and a heightened sense of well-being.
Let nature in
Be mindful of the quality of air in your bedroom. Open the windows to trees, sunshine and starry skies. Make love with the windows open, beneath the silver light of a full moon.
Create vitality and an aura of abundance with fresh, fragrant flowers.
Healthy pot plants are a good idea if your bedroom is fairly large, but Feng Shui principles require them to be located some distance from your bed.
Set the mood with lighting
Have several levels of lighting in your bedroom, or use a dimmer switch to adjust the energy accordingly. Candles are the best feng shui bedroom lighting, but be sure to buy candles with no toxins.
Choose colour wisely
Use soothing colours to achieve a good feng shui balance in your bedroom. Some of the better colours for the bedroom are skin colors, varying from pale white to rich chocolate brown. Choose colors within this range that will work best for your bedroom decor. You can read more on the
psychology of colour
here.
The perfect Feng Shui bedroom?
Feng Shui bedroom decor is a balanced decor that promotes the best flow of energy for sexual intimacy and restorative sleep. The keywords for the perfect feng shui bedroom are harmony and simplicity. In a good feng shui bedroom, every item reflects a clear intent for relaxation, healing, and love.
Feel free to visit the page on
bedroom sensuality
to create the perfect backdrop for intimacy and passion between the sheets.
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