Deliberate Orgasm and DOing

by Janet D.
(Gold Beach, Oregon)

My husband and I have been experimenting with him giving me longer and more intense orgasms from dvds we purchased from the Welcomed Consensus. We first learned about Deliberate Orgasm from David Shade who has a basic description of the technique in his Masterful Lover Manual, he calls the Welcomed Method and liked it so much we went to the source.

They have a bunch of instructional dvds for men and women, and female masturbation dvds too. We started with DO volume 1 and we quite over whelmed with all the information so opted for their introduction dvd called A 3 Minute Orgasm.

Like the first dvd it had an actual demonstration showing a man DOing a woman. In this dvd they cover what they say are the basic points, which was actually more than what we learned from David Shade.

I liked the way they teach guys to pay attention to the women and her genitals, and how to communicate. When he started using what we saw in the dvd I felt the sensation building in my clit, and then at some point it was like it over flowed and I could feel it in other parts of my body. After the suggested starting period of 3 minutes was completed, I felt a soft buzzing in my crotch and energized in a smooth way.

Later, when we tried it again, it felt like we started out where we had left off before, and this time the sensation was definitely stronger and moved more outward in my body. After wards I noticed how vivid the colors in the room were and when we I took a sip of wine at dinner it was like a flavor explosion in my mouth. This sensory enhancement faded after a while, but I notice it seems to come back every time.

Our dates are now anywhere from 5 - 10 minutes, and we ordered part two for more specific instruction and step by step techniques. What they offer is a female model of orgasm that can be gratifying for men and women, and a technique that makes all of your sex acts better. I have to say, they certainly deliver. For the first time in my life I not only feel like I can have all the sex I want, I am having it, and it keeps getting better. Another really great thing we noticed is that as he has learned to DO me and give me better orgasms, his orgasm is also better, longer and more intense.

If you want to learn about a whole new world of orgasm that's available to you and your partner I highly recommend you check out their website. I have spoken to them on the phone and they are very personable and are obviously totally dedicated to giving women better orgasm.