Deep Throating Techniques

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Deep Throating

If you want to learn some deep throating techniques, this is the place to be. Here you'll find simple but explicit instructions on how to deep throat your partner.

How to deep throat

Deep throating is a skill that takes a while to learn. It is a test of limits. You are willfully and mindfully dismantling a basic human physical function, the gag reflex. It is natural that as you learn this skill, you will feel discomfort. Many women feel pleasure in the discomfort - learning deep throating techniques is therefore worth a try. Just be patient with yourself -- it's not easy.

Relax

While learning to perform deep throat, it's important to be fully relaxed. Take a nice, long, hot bath. Put on some mood music. Drink a glass of wine. Have your partner give you a long sensual body massage .... or do whatever relaxes you the best. The more relaxed you are when you begin, the easier it will be to learn how to deep throat.

Positioning

The most important aspect of deep throating is to be in a position where you are able to extend and straighten your neck by slightly tilting it back. This helps line up your throat with your mouth, allowing his penis to slide in deep.

The best position is lying on your back with your head hanging off the edge of the bed and your partner standing over you. In this position he controls the depth of penetration, so there needs to be a lot of trust between you.

For him, this position provides an excellent view of your neck and body. One of the most exciting visual aspects of deep throating is that your partner can watch your neck and throat expand and bulge as his penis slides in deeper.

Lubrication

Like other parts of your anatomy, your throat needs copious lube to accommodate the length and breadth of your lover’s penis. In this situation saliva is your best friend -- so make sure you take all the time you need to get those juices flowing. An erect penis will slide much easier along the tongue and into your throat if it is well lubricated.

Slide it in

Once you're in position, tilt your head back and flatten the back of your tongue just as you would if a doctor were using a tongue depressor to look in your throat. Now pull the base of your tongue at the back of your throat down, as you would if you were about to yawn. Think about making a big, round cave at the back of your throat as you kind of retract the base of your tongue.

(Contrary to popular belief, you don't 'relax' your throat muscles to perform deep throat. Forcing the back of your tongue down and your throat open will counter the gag reflex and create a larger opening.)

Now, take a deep breath and slowly slide the length of the penis into your mouth and along your tongue. When you feel the urge to gag, pause and hold the penis there as long as possible, then withdraw it. Repeat this process as many times as you can. Eventually you'll be able to take the penis in deeper and deeper until you can take the entire length of it across your tongue and down your throat.

Control the gag reflex

When you have an object in your mouth and it presses against your soft palate, your natural response is to gag. However, if you can learn to create enough space at the back of your throat, you are in essence learning to control your gag reflex. You can learn to control the relevant muscles if you practice. Get accustomed to the feeling -- it gets easier with time.

Use your tongue

When you get to the point where the head of the penis enters your throat, you may feel a little resistance and will need to use your tongue to pull the penis in deeper. When you reach the point where you feel the gag reflex, pause for a moment; then, without removing the penis from you mouth, extend your tongue out a little further, then pull your tongue back in your mouth, pulling the penis along with it.

Advanced Deep Throating Techniques

After you've learned to take in the entire length, you can begin working on some advanced deep throating techniques that will add even more pleasure. One of these techniques is letting your partner ejaculate with the entire length of his penis in your throat. If you don't like the taste of cum, this is a great technique because the head of his penis will be well past the taste buds on the back of your tongue when he ejaculates.

You will also be able to perform a throat massage on his penis while it's in your throat. This is one of the advanced deep throating techniques that has to the potential to drive him wild with passion as your throat muscles massage his penis. You can accomplish this by actually making a swallowing motion while the entire length of his penis is deep in your throat. You'll also be able to lick his balls while he's in your throat.

So... what does it feel like?

If you've never been deep throated, you're probably wondering what it really feels like.

Most men report that they feel a "pleasurable ring of tightness" around the circumference of the penis just below the head, with the most pleasurable sensation focused on the underside of the penis where the head joins the shaft.

To summarize these deep throating techniques: lubrication, extend tongue, flatten back of tongue, force throat muscles open, go slow and be patient!


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