Clitoris Stimulation Tips

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Think of it this way... A clitoris massage is the ultimate in female sexual pleasure. If you learn the secrets of stimulating her correctly, your partner's enjoyment of sex will enhance a thousand-fold.

Clitoris Facts

The bit of the clitoris that you can see protruding is part of a much larger organ that extends inside. The clitoris shares the same components as the penis; they’re just hidden from view.

Visit my clitoris stimulation page for more on the anatomy and location of the clitoris.

Clitoris Stimulation Tips

1. For maximum pleasure lubrication is key. Use saliva or lube if the vulva isn’t naturally moist enough. If stimulation occurs when the clitoris is too dry, and when stimulation is too rough, too direct, too long, or too soon, the clitoris gets oversensitive. This can be painful.

2. Most women prefer a steady rhythm, so be careful with too much variation. Again, keep communicating with your partner and follow her direction.

3. Do keep in mind that some women don’t enjoy direct stimulation of the clitoris because of the sensitivity factor. In this case, circular movements around the clitoris elicit the best response.

4. Most women use a circular motion when pleasuring themselves. For best manual stimulation, it can also be rubbed, stroked, massaged or patted.

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6. For most women, tongue-work remains the medium of choice when it comes to clitoral stimulation. Quick flicks across the tip of the clitoris feels sensational, as well as gentle sucking of the glans and highly targeted pressure on the ‘frenulum equivalent’ where the hood retracts. (Think penis stimulation, but scale down for size!)

7. When a woman is ready for more direct clitoral stimulation, she opens her legs wider, pushes against her lover's hand or raises her pelvis off the bed. You can then stimulate more directly, still using a circular motion over the clitoris with a fingertip.

8. Orgasm positions that stretch or nudge the clitoris provide the best opportunity for a woman to climax during intercourse. These include woman-on-top and rear-entry positions.

9. Women often prefer stimulation of the clitoris to continue while they’re orgasming, though softer; stimulation generally feels good right through to the last spasm.

10. Most women’s clitorises are unbearably sensitive after orgasm, so return to very gentle massage of the area surrounding the clitoris if multiple orgasms is the goal.

Have fun in applying the most essential clitoris stimulation tips and maximize your lady's sexual pleasure!

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