Body Language Love Signals
Body language love signals are the subtle signs that tell you what your lover wants when you're making love. A lot of women don't ask for what they need to get aroused for fear of looking too forward. Women also tend to do to you what they want you to do to them. If she touches you gently, she wants you to be gentle. If she starts handling you more roughly, you can safely speed up your game.
If you are able to decipher her body language love signals, you are in an excellent position to unleash her wild side and fulfil both your sexual fantasies. The key is to be responsive. If she tentatively tries something, react. If you make it clear that you are in tune with her body language, she will trust you more and more, which makes for sensational sexual encounters!
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She puts her hands on your chest
If she places both her hands against your chest, she probably wants you to slow down. It creates a physical barrier between you, which may mean that she's still got a way to go before she can fully relax into you. Women sometimes use their knees as a barrier too.
Take a step back and focus on helping her relax. Stroke her non-genital erogenous zones, for example her wrists, the sides of her breasts or her thighs. Tell her how beautiful she is and how good it is to be with her. As her arousal levels rise, her thighs will open wider. Wait until she arches her back and point her hips upwards before touching her nipples and genitals.
She crosses her hands above her head
If your lover crosses her hands above her head, she opens the vulnerable areas of her body to you. This indicates that she wants to be passive.
Make the most of it by restraining her wrists with your one hand whilst fondling her breasts with the other. Use a variety of sexually dominant gestures such as parting her legs with your knees. You can also test the waters with bondage. Use her stockings or your tie to lightly bind her hands. A lot of women love it when the responsibility of taking action is taken away from them. It makes them feel less inhibited. You can also blindfold her to enhance her feelings of submission.
She gets on top
When she gets on top, it means that she wants to take control. It's a great position for her as she is able to alternate between constant clitoral contact or G-spot stimulation as she grinds against you. If she combines this move with eye contact, it signals sexual confidence and dominance. When women look away, it usually indicates submission.
Make the most of her confident mood by letting her dominate you. Slide your arms up above your head and show your wrists to indicate that you're at her mercy. She may even hold your arms down whilst taking her pleasure.
She bites your neck
If your lover bites you or digs her nails into your buttocks, she wants you to play rough. You can lightly bite back - women's pain threshold actually increases significantly when they get aroused and many like to walk that fine line between pain and pleasure.
Another way to handle it is to tell her that she's bad and lightly spank her. If she moans, you know you're on the right track. Spanking causes a rush of endorphins and encourage more blood flow to the genital area, which has the potential of making her orgasm so much stronger.
In conclusion...
When you read your lover's love language and you're in synch with each other, you connect on a much deeper level than the physical. Match your breathing to hers. Talk to her with your eyes and your hands and take her to heights neither of you could have imagined...
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