Better Sex for Couples

Better sex for couples is dependent on each partner's willingness to do whatever is necessary to satisfy each other regularly and fully. It is about a willingness to learn what you need to know to become a great lover.

This is much easier said than done. Once you've survived the emotional rollercoaster of infatuation in the honeymoon period of your relationship, it takes a bit of know-how to keep sex exciting in the later 'true love' stage.

In order to gain insight into what better sex for couples entails, the following questions are pertinent:

- What are the best-of-the-best secrets of having great, ongoing sex?

- Why do some couples have sensational sex and others don’t?

- What keep the passion-fire burning in a relationship?

- Is it possible for anyone to become a great lover?

If you would like answers to these questions and learn how to not only have great sex for couples, but be a great lover, read on...

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How to Be a Great Lover

Better Sex Tips for Couples

2. Great lovers love sex. They bask in it, they luxuriate in it. If she knows he relishes oral sex, it helps her to relax into it, which triples the satisfaction. The same for him – it’s impossible to really enjoy being pleasured if you’re concerned about whether your lover likes your taste or your odour. Telling your partner how much you love sex is a gift.

3. Great lovers use their femininity or masculinity to their advantage. There is a subtle but powerful tension between opposites that evokes primal sexual energy and enhances pleasure. The more feminine she is the more masculine he can be and vice versa, which lifts sex to unexpected levels.

4. Great lovers let their partners know that they are irresistible. Nothing is more effective to revive a sex life gone stale than making each other feel attractive. Saying it is one thing, but it’s even more effective when you show your partner how much pleasure you take in their body. Great lovers delight in each other.

5. Great lovers understand that defining great sex is personal and they’re able to celebrate their differences. There is no one-way-is-the-right-way, or even worse, my-way-is-the-only-way. For one person amazing sex might mean being able to give and receive white-hot orgasms, for another it might be about adventure and play, and for yet another it might be about feeling amazingly close and connected while wrapped in a lover's arms. Instead of assuming, great lovers communicate: they ask what feels great and tells the same. Even if couples have been in a relationship for years, they can still surprise each other and learn new things about each other.

6. The best lovers know that sensational sex is not only about intercourse. The act of sex is only one part of making love. There is a smorgasbord of pleasurable activities available. Great lovers understand the dance of seduction, and that exploration is essential: playing out fantasies, using sex toys, climaxing in different ways. It’s important to give each other permission to do whatever is desired in any given situation. If she sometimes prefers a vibrator to his tongue, that’s okay. If he sometimes wants a hand-job rather than penetration, why not?

7. If you want to have better sex for couples, remember that great lovers never, ever compare their partners to anyone else, and especially not to former relationships. It's easy, when referencing other liaisons - good or bad - to stray mentally, emotionally, or physically from the one you're in. Each new relationship brings its own responsibility to make it the most satisfying it can be.

8. Great lovers aren’t afraid to show their vulnerable side. This goes to the heart of being willing to trust someone you love with your particular weaknesses. The more open you are to sharing your softer side, the more protective your partner will become. Why? Because that’s just what love does.

I hope my better sex for couples page was a good read and I am proud to share my collection of wonderful love quotes with you. You may also like the following articles on better sex for couples:

* Boosting Sexual Chemistry

* How to Stay in Love

* How to Please your Partner in Bed

* How to Use Sex Toys

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