best orgasm for me!

by Bree
(Kissimmee, FL USA)

I am 21 years old and divorced, my ex husband could never get me to achieve a satisfactory orgasm. When I started seeing my current boyfriend we took things slow and fooled around mostly, never had full intercourse. However, when we did, I realized what I had been missing all those years ago.

I've found that having an orgasm prior to intercourse has allowed me to have easily 4 to 5 penetration based orgasms in an hour of sex. The little things are what make the difference for me.

My lover, starts by kissing my whole body and teasing my inner thighs and gently sucking on my breasts. He'll perform oral sex, not where its a sloppy disaster but use mainly the tip of his tongue and focus Just below or to the sides of my clitoris never making direct contact but will then softly suck on my clitoris and use his hands to stimulate me and rub my g-spot until I climax.

After I have reached my piunt of ecstasy he is ready to go with little or no stimulation, however its only fair ;) once intercourse has begun we never try to jackhammer our way to China if you catch my drift.

He'll monitor his thrusts and watch my reactions and see what feels great for me. When he picks up the pace and I approach another orgasm he will go back to one of his methods that I responded well to and cause me to have a spine shattering, toe curling orgasm that has me clinched to his body gasping for air.

Sex takes time for both parties to fully enjoy it. I hope this helps people understand that there are other methods other than toys and self stimulation. Please note every woman is different so guys, get to know your girls body and girls if he can't figure it out, help him.