There are several anal sex positions that allow for great anal play. Aim for comfort and go slow. The more relaxed you are, the better penetration will be tolerated.
To start, lie on your back with your knees up to your chest, or if feeling a little vulnerable, sit up with open legs. Good old missionary is one of the most comfortable anal sex positions and allows for eye contact, kissing and closeness. This is important since anal touch - both giving and receiving - is the ultimate sign of trust. To make your anus more accessible, prop your bottom up on a cushion or utilize Liberator's great range of sex furniture.
The classic position for anal sex is on your knees, posterior raised and buttocks spread. Some women feel that they don't have a lot of control in the rear-entry position and even that it is something that is being done 'to' them rather than 'with' them. If there is enough trust however, this position can be a great turn-on. You can stimulate your clitoris manually or with a small vibrator while being penetrated.
Strong thigh muscles are needed for receptive on top positions. This position refers to squatting on your haunches, lowering yourself on your lover's penis and bouncing up and down. It is tiring, but if you can control the movement and pause at the top for a few moments before sliding down, it gives your partner a great sense of anticipation.
You can sit upright or lie on top of your lover, which distributes your weight more evenly.
Two things to expect with anal intercourse: Firstly, expect full penetration to take several sessions. It is important to adapt both physically and emotionally. Lastly, if he is the one penetrating, expect a quick orgasm. This is because unlike the vagina, the anus stays tight when penetrated.
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