A tip to keep the flames ignited in your relationship

by Jason Hairston
(Duluth, GA)

The best way to please a woman is to get into her mind before you get into her body. Role playing can be the perfect way to do just that. When most people hear about the idea of role playing they tend to think of it in the sexual sense. Role playing can be done outside of the bedroom and it can be just as effective as a prelude to the bedroom later.

One of the things I like to do is role play with my partner when we are out and about. For example, if we were in a store I would tell her "I'm going to use the restroom, I'll be back" When I return I would sneak up behind her and whisper in her ear "I had to come over here and talk to you. You're the sexiest woman I've ever seen." Hopefully, she would fall right into her imaginary role as well. Eventually, I would ask her if I could give her a ride home and we would walk out of the store pretending to be strangers that just met. This method helps keep the relationship fresh and exciting. It's almost as if you're meeting for the first time over and over again. Be creative and have fun. Fun is the key to keeping the flames ignited.


Jason Hairston